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Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

Somatic therapy to release traumatic experiences

What Is EMDR?

EMDR has been proven to be effective for dealing with past traumas or difficult experiences. It’s a therapeutic modality that uses bilateral stimulation (traditionally eye movements) to help you process the trauma and reduce its impact on your current mental state.

 

This process, known as bilateral stimulation, involves two key steps:

  1. You recall a distressing memory, and associated thoughts feelings, and images.

  2. At the same time, you focus on a stimulus (e.g., a moving image on a screen, taps on alternating shoulders, etc.) that crosses the mid-line of your body and thus stimulates the right and left hemispheres of the brain.

 

This process, tied within a framework, promotes the elimination of the emotional disturbance associated with a traumatic memory.

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Is EMDR Effective?

EMDR has been shown to be very effective for clients dealing with past trauma. It's a well-supported therapeutic modality that uses specific bilateral stimulation to help you process the traumatic memories and lessen their impact on how you experience the present.

 

EMDR can not only be effective in processing and releasing traumatic events such as car accidents, wars, assaults, the loss of a child…(called big T traumas); it can also be effective for addressing experiences such as childhood teasing or bullying that have left us with beliefs such as “I’m not good enough” that we still operate under in the world years later (called little t traumas).

 

EMDR therapy has been proven to be effective when dealing with the following conditions:

  • PTSD

  • Anxiety

  • Depression

  • Panic attacks

  • Phobias

  • Dissociative disorders and more

What Does An EMDR Session Look Like?

First, the client and therapist work together to collect basic information about the traumatic experience, the nagging beliefs that persist and cloud day-to-day experiences, or symptoms associated with possible trauma (even if we have no memory of the trauma) such as hypervigilance, nightmares, etc.

 

Here is a snippet of what such a session might look like for a single incident trauma of a car accident:

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Together, the client and the therapist identify a starting target, by respecting a set of conditions for effectiveness. In this case, they opted for the moment the other car struck them. Other options may have been seeing the other car approach, the look on one of the victim’s faces, the sight of the blood, the smell of engine fuel, the sound of sirens, the sensation of being stuck in the vehicle, etc.

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Therapist: Bring back the image of the car hitting you.

 

The therapist helps the client identify the negative belief associated with it.

 

Client: I’ll never get over this.

 

Then, a preferred, positive belief, one that the client would like to believe and integrate but does not yet believe, is named.

 

Client: It’s over; I can move on with my life now.

 

Next, the client is asked to rate, on a scale (called the VOC scale) of 1 (not true at all) to 7 (completely true), how true the positive belief feels when connected to the target. At this stage, it usually doesn't feel very true. The client is then asked to identify the emotions that the target brings up, rate the level of distress associated with it on a scale (called the SUDs scale) of 0 to 10, and identify where in the body the disturbance is experienced.

 

Client: Fear and shame, with disturbance level 10, in belly and chest.

 

Then, the client is asked to hold in awareness the target, the negative belief, and the disturbing body sensations associated with the feelings. At the same time, the therapist guides the client’s eyes to move rapidly back and forth (or other bilateral stimulation used). This is done in sets, which may last from a few seconds to a few minutes. During each set the client is instructed to just notice whatever changes occur in mind and body, without attempting to control the experience in any way.

 

Occasionally, in the first few sets (first few minutes), there is an increase in the disturbance level. After a few sets of bilateral stimulations, with each new set, the target becomes less and less disturbing, and the positive belief feels increasingly true. The target is completely processed when recall of the image no longer brings up disturbing emotions, and the preferred positive belief feels completely true.

 

Client: Recalls the event accurately but no longer feels threatened by the image. It now feels like a distant memory rather than something that is happening right now.

Let Me Help You Heal From Past Trauma

EMDR Therapist in Ontario

My name is Manon, and I’m here to help you heal from past trauma so you can be free of hypervigilance, distress, triggers, anxiety, nightmares, flashbacks, and sleepless nights. I want you to be free to live joyfully in the present moment.

 

EMDR can effectively help you release past traumas or difficult experiences. It uses bilateral stimulation to help you process the trauma and reduce its impact on your current mental state.

 

If you’re looking for a trusted EMDR therapist, I’m here to assist you. You can start by scheduling a free initial consultation (below), during which I can l tell you more about this therapeutic approach, and answer any questions you might have.

 

Manon Sookocheff

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Book EMDR Therapy With Me Today

Start With a Free 15-Minute Consultation

If you’re struggling with the psychological aftermath of trauma, EMDR may help you heal. If you have any questions or are not sure whether EMDR is right for you, don’t hesitate to schedule a free consultation with me.

 

If you think we are a good fit, we’ll discuss the next steps. However, if you need more time, don’t worry; there is also absolutely no need to commit to working together at the time of the consultation. You can get back to me if and when you decide you want to move things forward.

 

I look forward to chatting with you!

 

Manon Sookocheff

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